Alexa Gelles

& Associates

604-239-3044

EMDR Counselling Vancouver

Relationship & Attachment-Focused EMDR Therapy for Unhealthy Patterns, Emotional Regulation, and Self-Worth

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EMDR Teletherapy & In-Person Therapy – Vancouver, B.C.

If you feel stuck in the same relationship patterns, easily triggered, or overwhelmed by your reactions, EMDR therapy is the breakthrough you need.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a proven, research-based therapy that helps you process the root of these patterns—so you can manage triggers, feel more regulated, and respond with clarity instead of reacting on autopilot.

Unresolved trauma, grief, or painful past relationships

Ongoing insecurity, worry, or overthinking in your relationships

Difficulty trusting yourself or making aligned choices

Challenges with boundaries, saying no, or feeling taken for granted

Repeated patterns—like fear of abandonment, people-pleasing, or choosing unavailable partners

Emotional shutdown, intimacy concerns, or feeling disconnected from yourself



EMDR can help you process what’s been weighing on you, shift long-standing patterns, and feel clearer, calmer, and more confident in yourself and your relationships.

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EMDR Can Help With:

Release emotional blocks that are impacting your relationships

Feel grounded and secure in your sense of self

Break repetitive patterns that leave you frustrated or stuck

Strengthen communication, boundaries, and trust

Heal deeply and experience change that lasts























Is This Right for You?

EMDR is a good fit if you want to:

How EMDR Therapy Works

01

We’ll start by understanding your challenges, setting goals, and identifying the root causes.




Identifying the Problem

Using back-and-forth eye movements, we’ll help your brain process and release trapped emotions.

Processing with Eye Movements

02

This process helps you rewire the neural connections in your brain, releasing what’s blocking you from emotional freedom.

Rewiring Your Brain

03

We’ll ensure the changes last, helping you integrate your healing into everyday life.

04

Integration

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Release Emotional Blocks: Let go of past trauma, anxiety, or grief that’s holding you back.

Improve Relationships: Heal from past hurts to create stronger, healthier connections with others.

Increase Self-Confidence: Break free from negative beliefs and improve your self-esteem.

Enjoy Peace of Mind: Gain emotional freedom and a greater sense of well-being.

Why Choose EMDR Therapy?

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What Makes Us Different

We’re All About Relationships: Whether it’s relationship anxiety, communication struggles, breakups, or infidelity—helping people build stronger, healthier connections is what we do best.

We Care About Results: Sessions aren’t just talk. You’ll leave with practical tools and strategies you can start using right away to see real change.

Relatable & Approachable: We get it. We’ll validate what you’re feeling, laugh with you, and guide you through the work with understanding and care.

Collaborative Care: If you need individual support alongside couples counselling, we’ll connect you with the right counsellor so you’re fully supported every step of the way.

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You have options when it comes to counselling.
Here’s what sets us apart:

No matter what brings you here, we’re committed to helping you feel safe, understood, and capable of change.

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Feeling secure in yourself and your relationships

Responding with clarity instead of reacting from old wounds

Breaking free from patterns that no longer serve you

Setting boundaries that honour your needs

Experiencing deeper emotional and physical intimacy

Enjoying a greater sense of peace and ease in your everyday life
















Imagine Feeling…

With EMDR, you can work toward:

STEP 1

step 2

 Fill out your confidential intake form online before your first session. This helps your counsellor understand your history, challenges, and goals so your time together is focused.

STEP 3

In your first session, you and your counsellor will explore your challenges, identify patterns, and create a personalized plan to help you reach your goals.

Schedule your first session or a free 15-minute consultation here. Unsure who to work with? Contact our Client Care Coordinator, and we’ll help you find the right match.

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Meet Your Counsellor

Ready to get started?

Follow these 3 simple steps.

EMDR Counselling FAQs

The A’s to Your Q’s

Can EMDR support relationship issues?

EMDR is highly effective for healing attachment wounds, past relationship pain, and the beliefs that keep you stuck in old patterns. It helps you process past experiences that impact connection, reduce emotional reactivity, and choose how to respond instead of reacting automatically.

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What’s the difference between Relationship Counselling and EMDR Counselling?

EMDR is a specialized therapy that can address relationship challenges and a range of other issues, such as low self-esteem, stress, anxiety, and grief. It’s often integrated with relationship counseling to support both healing and personal growth.






Can EMDR be done virtually?

Absolutely! EMDR works just as effectively in online sessions. We use techniques like audio, tapping, or eye movements through the screen, allowing you to experience the same benefits from the comfort of your home.

We offer 50 and 75 minute EMDR sessions. Longer sessions are typically recommended for EMDR.

How long are EMDR sessions?

How many sessions will I need?

It’s hard to predict exactly how many EMDR sessions you'll need, as everyone heals at their own pace. While EMDR can be quicker than traditional therapy, some may need just a few sessions, while others may require up to 6 months for lasting change.







Not necessarily! While EMDR is often used for trauma, it's also effective for any stuck patterns or emotions that are getting in the way of your progress—whether they’re related to past events or current struggles.


Do I need to have experienced trauma or recall traumatic memories for EMDR to be effective?

What is EMDR Therapy?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a structured, evidence-based therapy that helps you process past experiences that are still affecting how you think, feel, and respond. It’s often used to address triggers, emotional reactions, and patterns that feel hard to change.





How does EMDR therapy work?

EMDR helps your brain reprocess memories that feel “stuck.” Using guided eye movements, we support your nervous system in safely working through these experiences so they carry less emotional intensity. Over time, this helps you feel more regulated and respond with more clarity instead of reacting automatically.

What can EMDR help with?

EMDR can help with anxiety, relationship challenges, triggers, low self-worth, grief, and other experiences that are affecting how you think, feel, and respond. It’s often used to address triggers, emotional reactions, and patterns that feel hard to change.




How much do EMDR Counselling sessions cost?

Individual sessions start at $150 per 50-minute session. Payments can be made by credit card or e-transfer.

You’re Worth This Work

You don’t have to keep carrying the weight of past experiences. EMDR therapy can help you feel more grounded, confident, and connected—to yourself and to the people you care about.

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