Alexa Gelles

& Associates

604-239-3044

Premarital Counselling

Support for couples in their early years to build a strong foundation, communicate better, and feel confident about their future together.

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Teletherapy & In-Person Therapy for Couples offered in Vancouver, B.C.

You’re not the average couple…

At Aligned Relationship Counselling, we help you get to the root of recurring arguments, stop fights from spiralling, and communicate with ease.

You’ll learn how to repair after disagreements, strengthen your foundation, and feel confident about your future together.
















Individual counselling helps you break free from self-doubt and unhealthy dynamics to build confidence and create secure, lasting connections.

You love your partner and want to strengthen your relationship to prepare for the future.
But you’re stuck on the “how.” 

Maybe disagreements keep happening in circles, and you’re struggling to figure out why, and what to do about them.

You’re Not Alone

Having disagreements that keep going in circles

Avoiding difficult topics or feeling stuck after arguments

Worrying that small conflicts could escalate

Struggling to communicate in a way that makes both of you feel heard

Even the strongest couples experience tension.
You might find yourselves:

Premarital counselling gives you tools to navigate challenges, strengthen your bond, and build a solid foundation for your future together.

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Are in the first few years of your relationship—living together, engaged, or newly married

Love your partner deeply and are committed to building a life together

Want to proactively address disagreements before they become bigger problems

Want to communicate clearly and work through challenges as a team

Are ready to strengthen your relationship and prepare for major life steps, like buying a home, getting married, or starting a family






















Is This Right for You?

Premarital counselling is perfect if you:

Our Approach

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We ask open-ended questions to understand you as a couple—your strengths, challenges, and goals—and create a plan to bridge gaps and strengthen your connection.

Discovering Your Story

We unpack patterns that cause conflict or distance, highlight blind spots, and guide you on healthier ways to respond and communicate.

Understanding What Keeps You Stuck

02

Using approaches like the Gottman Method, EFT principles, and communication coaching, we teach you practical tools to stop fights from spiralling, express needs effectively, and repair after disagreements.

Skill-Building, Repair, and Reconnection

03

You’ll practice new communication and repair strategies between sessions so they become second nature, making it easier to navigate challenges and stay connected in your day-to-day life.

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Applying New Tools at Home

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At Aligned Relationship Counselling, we combine understanding, practical tools, and proven strategies to help you feel more confident, secure, and connected in your relationships. Here’s how we work with you:

What Makes Us Different

We’re All About Relationships: Whether it’s relationship anxiety, communication struggles, breakups, or infidelity—helping people build stronger, healthier connections is what we do best.

We Care About Results: Sessions aren’t just talk. You’ll leave with practical tools and strategies you can start using right away to see real change.

Relatable & Approachable: We get it. We’ll validate what you’re feeling, laugh with you, and guide you through the work with understanding and care.

Collaborative Care: If you need individual support alongside couples counselling, we’ll connect you with the right counsellor so you’re fully supported every step of the way.

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You have options when it comes to counselling.
Here’s what sets us apart:

No matter what brings you here, we’re committed to helping you feel safe, understood, and capable of change.

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Seeing each other as a team and fully relying on one another

Talking openly without fear of upsetting your partner

No more blowouts or unspoken tension ruining weekends or special moments

Communicating clearly and effectively so both of you feel heard

Feeling ready and excited for the next steps in your life together
















Imagine Feeling…

Through counselling, you can work toward:

STEP 1

step 2

 Fill out your confidential intake form online before your first session. This helps your counsellor understand your history, challenges, and goals so your time together is focused.

STEP 3

In your first session, you and your counsellor will explore your challenges, identify patterns, and create a personalized plan to help you reach your goals.

Schedule your first session or a free 15-minute consultation here. Unsure who to work with? Contact our Client Care Coordinator, and we’ll help you find the right match.

Book Your First Session or Free Consultation

Complete Your Intake Form

Meet Your Counsellor

Ready to get started?

Follow these 3 simple steps.

What is premarital counselling?

Premarital Counselling FAQs

How is premarital counselling different from couples therapy?

Premarital counselling is typically short-term and goal-focused, helping you prepare for a strong future together. Couples therapy may explore deeper patterns, past trauma, or ongoing relationship issues.

The A’s to Your Q’s

Can we add individual support if needed?

Yes. If one or both partners would like extra individual support, we can connect you with a counsellor on our team so you’re fully supported.

Do we need to be engaged or married to attend?

No. Premarital counselling is for couples in the early stages of their relationship—whether you’re living together, engaged, or newly married.

Premarital counselling is a supportive process for couples preparing for marriage. It helps you communicate better, navigate differences, and build a strong foundation for your future together.

The number of sessions depends on your goals and challenges. For premarital couples focusing on communication, understanding each other, and stopping repetitive arguments, 4–6 sessions often lead to lasting change.

How long will counselling take?

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Absolutely! You can bring up any concerns or challenges, and we’ll guide you with practical tools to handle them effectively.

Can we bring up specific issues or topics in counselling?

Ready to Strengthen Your Relationship?

Get to the root of your arguments, stop fights from spiraling, communicate with ease, and repair after disagreements—so you can feel confident, connected, and fully prepared for your future together.

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